A friend or A Fr-enemies?

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"Fickle Friends" written by Kirsten Weir.
A friend, someone who enter in our lives, once a stranger and sometime a best friends. Listen to our secrets, problems, shares our joys, tears and laugh. But is it a real friend? Is it his/her action is true to us?
Is he/her is sincere befriend with us?


This is the article of Fickle Friends is all about. A friend who we thought our real and the only one friend is actually have a double face or double personality. In front of her, they are our savior, our family. We treat them as an important pieces in our lives. But do we know that, a fr-enemies is someone who always there beside us but behind our back they are badmouthing about us to other people. They were innocent in front of us, but behind we would never know their true face. This situation is always happened in our lives. Especially teenagers, as they involved with different kind of people. Different personalities, different attitude. And we thought we had found one that suits our soul. Or we can call them soul mates. 

But then again, it is just a lie, just a mere illusion that we created to believe they are the one and only we need. We came to believe that this friend is our lifetime friends. That would never leave us. But the truth is we never know. We find it difficult to let go these friends as we have shared a lot of things with them. We have been persuade by their kindness and thus, making us have a hard time to ignore them. Well, it is very normal to feel this kind of way. As they are our friends.
To find how to deal with these kind of friends. You could always read the article here: Fickle Friends

That is all from me. Trust people only when you trust yourself.

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Irony much?

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What is irony?
-In irony, the truth about contradicting situations are debatable. We could never be sure which one is true and which one is wrong.
It's like you talking about something positive but your conclusion is contradict with your first statement.


For example:
-I love to swim, but I don't know how to swim.
-I like chocolate but I don't eat them
-I want my assignments to be done without me doing it.

See the example. I'm sure it's clear enough to make you understand as this is the simplest sentence.

And this is the example of Britney Spears quote when she is fighting for her children.
"I give up my religion, my Christianity  and Kabala, and now my children is my religion.

So there is an element of irony, she said she has given up her religion, but then she said her children is her religion. It seems twisted right. I will let you guys to think about it for a moment.

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Reasoning in syllogism. Relevant or not?

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TOPIC FOR TODAY's ENTRY.. TADAAA~
SYLLOGISM
Curious about what is syllogism?
is a kind of logical argument in which one proposition (the conclusion) is inferred from two or more others (the premises) of a certain form. 
In our class, our awesome lecturer, has taught us to reason using syllogism. Wow, it rhyme doesn't it. :)Okay, we've done a bit of role-playing, where we have to wear a self-made toga using any cloth that we can find. And the funny thing is, it was very colourful and a bit smelly.(it's because they use their little blankie). LOL. 
Toga is a cloth that have been used by the roman people. We've been transformed to the Roman wannabe for awhile. In this class, we learn how to reason using syllogism. If, you have never read about Julius Caesar Assassination, that means you're lame. LOL, just kidding. you can Google it.


Let me gives you an example reasoning using syllogism. 
Elephant is big and fat.*** is big and fatTherefore, *** is an Elephant. (see as simple as that)


Another example is:
A good student study for their exams,Ummie does not study for her exams,Therefore, Ummie is not a good student.


In conclusion, syllogism is used when we need to reason something, to find its truth although it seems to be irrelevant. But, you can also try this. It's fun and can used to be mock someone as well . Have fun alright :)Till then, ciao.   



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Stupid or just being Funny?

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Hi I'm Mr. Bean.

Rowan Atkinson, or popular with the name of Mr.Bean. His comedy shows was one of a kind. he can make people laugh only by looking at his face. Maybe he is the second Charlie Chaplin or maybe he has surpass Charlie. Who knows?

Rowan act in many types of movie. But, among all those character, his best character is Mr.Bean. He could never run away from it as Mr. Bean really leaves a big impact to the viewer who watched his comedy shows. He could be very funny and hilarious at time. And sometimes stupid. But, Rowan, managed to make it funny without looking stupid. He is the best.

To make people laugh is a very difficult job. Jokes does not always work in people. But Mr. Bean has proved that he could do it without any effort. Only by using facial expression, a very little word and action, he could make a baby stop crying and start laughing with his jokes. That is what makes Rowan Atkinson is the best comedy actor in the history. I might say, I miss Mr. Bean and will always live the fact that Mr. Bean is my best childhood story.

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I am romantic? No. I am libertine? No. What am I?

Romance is when two people
is devoted in their relationship.

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I've been reading this article called "are you a romantic or a libertine" by M. Scott Peck. Well, I might say the content attracts me to read them. It is interesting to see the author said about love, he called them 'symptom'. As for me, love have a very wide definition. It can be with your friends, family, your boyfriends, girlfriends and one and only, our creator of course. So, it can be called symptom if you only love someone when you started to care about that person.

In this entry, I want to talk about romance. The author define romance as "a prevailing sense of wonder or mystery surrounding the mutual attraction in love affair". When people start to try impress their lover with presents, flowers and in any kind of way, it is called romantic ritual. There are two types of "romantic ritual".
   a) Obligatory romance
       This type of romance is when, the lover will remember all special date and celebrate them according to the dates and give any present, celebrate birthday for their beloved. Not much of effort is needed because the lover will only be romantic in specific occasion.
   b) Optional romance
       This type of romance is spontaneous. They try to come out with different kind of ideas in order to impress their beloved and to make sure they still in their beloved heart. The lover do not only celebrate in specific date but they would celebrate it anytime they want. This type is more romantic and they will do anything to make sure their beloved happy.

Well, I prefer optional romance more because most of the girls love it when they get surprises not only on special occasion but in everyday life, don't they. Well I am. How about you?

Too many hearts being broken but one remained untouched.

What about libertine?
The Libertine only concerned with their own personal feelings with no regards of other. The famous person is of course Giacomo Casanova himself. He enjoy his life of being surrounded by many girls and not stick with only one person and only put their feelings first instead of their beloved. This type of love is somehow not preferable because it can hurt other people's feeling.
While, Romantic often treats their beloved as hard to possess but very precious to them. They will appreciates their beloved and do anything to make sure their beloved is happy and put their beloved feelings first instead of them. This will hurt that person if their love is a one-sided love. Sometimes it can make a person be very spirited,  but sometimes it can put you really down.

Do you rather have a Casanova or a Romantic?


Before I close my entry let we all asked ourselves :
Should one put aside his or her personal feeling and put the beloved object's feeling first?


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